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5 Money Beliefs Keeping You Stuck
And how to change them
Hey ā itās Lee from Refresh.me.
Your beliefs about money become your financial reality through self-fulfilling prophecy.
If you believe wealthy people are greedy, you might unconsciously sabotage your own wealth-building to avoid becoming what you hate.
If you think money is always going to be scarce, youāll hoard it instead of investing for growth.
If you believe youāre ājust bad with money,ā youāll avoid learning about finances and make decisions that prove yourself right.
Your financial outcomes arenāt just about math and strategy (although important). Itās about the beliefs you have around money.
In todayās issue:
5 money beliefs keeping you stuck
Saving money to have a child (WWYD)
How to get discounted meat and produce
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š Deep Dive: 5 Money Beliefs Keeping You Stuck
1ļøā£ I canāt invest until I have money.
If you say this, youāre ignoring the fact that investing small amounts is how regular people build wealth over time.
You donāt need thousands to start. Many brokerages accept $1 minimums, and there are apps that invest your spare change.
By waiting for āenoughā money, you miss years of compound growth that can build into substantial wealth.

2ļøā£ Rich people are just lucky.
Sure, thereās an element of luck in building extreme wealth. And for some people, the riches were handed to them.
But that isnāt always the case.
Thinking everyone elseās wealth was built solely on luck leaves you feeling powerless about it yourself. It also gives you an excuse to do nothing to build wealth.
Most millionaires built their wealth through consistent saving, investing, and smart financial decisions over decades.

This belief will keep you waiting for luck to strike rather than taking action to create wealth for yourself.
3ļøā£ Budgeting is for poor people.
This belief confuses tracking money with lacking money, when the opposite is true.
You donāt build wealth flying by the seat of your pants. You build it by being intentional about where youāre spending.
Avoiding budgets because they seem ābeneath youā is keeping your money from being used intentionally to build wealth.
4ļøā£ Iām too young/old to start.
Time is your greatest wealth-building asset, and this belief wastes it regardless of your age.
Young people think they have forever to start (I thought this back in my 20s) and miss out on compound interest.
Older people think itās too late, ignoring that even 10-15 years of investing can dramatically improve your retirement.

5ļøā£ The market is too risky.
This belief confuses short-term volatility with long-term risk.
Sure, trading stocks daily (called day trading) is extremely risky because of frequent market fluctuations.
But when investing for the long-term, these daily market fluctuations arenāt so important. Over the last 30 years, the market has returned 9.33%.
This means that despite any daily ups and downs, your investments could still have grown (roughly) 9.33%. If you let your cash sit in a bank account, it wouldāve lost value due to inflation.
Donāt let your fear of temporary losses prevent you from having a secure, financially stable retirement.
Put It Into Practice
Which of these money beliefs have you fallen prey to? Take one of the following actions based on the belief you hold:
I canāt invest until I have money ā Invest your spare change or set a small budget to invest each month.
Rich people are just lucky ā What can you do today, that involves action rather than luck, to improve your finances?
Budgeting is for poor people ā Create a budget.
Iām too young/old to start ā Start investing, regardless of age.
The market is too risky ā Explore index funds and start investing.

šµ Budget Breakdown: Saving to Have a Child
This weekās WWYD comes from a recent Yahoo article.
The TLDR: While thereās no universal amount a family should have before having a kid, experts say a practical guideline is 3-6 months of expenses in an emergency fund, plus $20-30k for child-related costs.
Example: If your monthly expenses were $4,000, youād need $12k-$24k in your emergency fund + $20-30k for child-related costs. Thatās $32k to $54kā¦in cashā¦in your savings accountā¦prior to having a child.
Here are my thoughts: Does this feel unrealistic to anyone else? Itās incredibly financially responsible to prepare this much before having a child, but this is quite the feat for the average person.
Letās assume a couple has the median household income of $78,000. Theyāre saving $3,432 per year, which is the current average savings rate in the US. It would take 9 to 15 years to save the expertsā recommendation.
What would you do? |

š Quick Links
š„¦ How to get fresh meat and produce at a discount.
š Financial expert warns about buying new cars.
š§ How much you need to retire.
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Every generationās money trauma becomes their financial playbook:
Boomers: Post-war boom ā āWork hard, save everythingā
Millennials: 2008 crash ā āThe system is brokenā
Gen Z: Everything unaffordable ā āWhy play by these rules?ā
ā Lee Schmidt (@leeschmidt123)
3:02 PM ⢠Aug 8, 2025
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